The following is the best channeling we've had on handling difficult relationships. While the following channeling is for parents of an adult son who they can't seem to find any common ground with, it certainly can apply to any kind of relationship that we have. We can all make our lives more peaceful by implementing the following.
Guides about John Jr.
Without doubt you know and feel that what you want, in all ways in life, is to bring compassion towards your fellow humans, towards those who live here on this earth as you do; finding your way, looking for your multi-dimensional status knowing that there is much more to who you are than meets the eye. Just as you and Sally are discussing, not all beings in human form find that as something attainable, something they can accomplish and bring forward. So you ask yourself: then what is my role? Do I fall to their level and accept their kind of attitude, energy and behavior? Well of course not. You recognize what it is that you hold in terms of your truth and authenticity and then you deal with them accordingly but not with the idea that they must, somehow, jump to your command and act based on your wishes. Of course John Jr. is going to proceed through life with the inclinations, the proclivities, and the issues that he is dealing with. Yes, one of them is feeling in some way that he must get the better of his father and be able to receive what he feels is justified and deserved in this life. Yet that does not require nor mean that you or John dance to the dance that he is putting out there.
Knowing that then, you must continually take the path that is looking to the horizon that sees John Jr. as someone more than just the sum of his parts as he is behaving on this earth. You have the realization of knowing there is something else within him that he has, that he carries, that he has not yet discovered on the path here on this earth. You acknowledge and have faith in that. You focus there and you help John focus there. Yes, you deal with what you must in terms of whatever John Jr. brings in the material, physical world forward but you do so with a constant recognition and overview that he is a soul who struggles with the kind of energy and the kind of purpose that you and John live by. He is as unable to move in that direction as you are to live like he does. So you must remember that. You must hold yourselves accountable to who you are and what you know about life.
Just as you are discussing here this moment, you recognize and can feel that John Jr. is lost. In so many different ways he knows not how to proceed. He feels the world beckoning and the world setting up expectations that he wants to answer to, that he knows is in rhythm with his own energy and then he steps into it feeling inept and unable to. This frustrates him. It puts him into a state of resignation. He resigns himself that he doesn’t have the stuff to do what it is he wants to do, what his father has done. So he finds all other means, all other ways, all other methods to get what it is he so desperately wants.
Of course you are going to see desperation in his behavior and his actions. Of course you are going to recognize that it comes from his feeling frustrated, his feeling that he can or should be in sync with what the outer world is telling him and yet he continually bumps against it and finds that he’s not. So what does one do in that case? You start stretching desperately out, projecting on to others in your life what it is that is wrong with them or where it is their weak spots are so that you can pounce there and see if perhaps that is the avenue, that’s the way, to get what you want. That’s what he is doing now, nothing more. He is pushing himself to the limit, pouncing on John, his father, looking for a way to see where that weakness might open a porthole for him.
Recognize him for who he is. Know what it is he is doing. Accept that that is the way, the only way he knows how to turn but that you know a different way. You hold him to another energy. You will continually recognize that there is a soulful being here, still walking the earth learning and trying so hard to be what he wants to be here as John Jr. Just accept that this is his part, this is his path, and then deal with what you can that is healthier and above board and what you can’t, by no means, deal with it all.
You have recognized that it is best with John Jr., and John has as well, to keep the distance, to not feel the closeness or to invite some sort of camaraderie. You know that John Jr. is not capable at this point of being in the energy with you and knowing that that energy is something sustaining and helpful. Instead it brings a rub. It brings a sense of being off and jagged. So the honorable, the most astute move, is to keep yourself away from him and to send as much as you can the acknowledgment of who he is as a soulful being.
Let him know, and let John know, that you are there as a partner not to see the flaws and the failings of who John is as a person. That is well documented and you don’t need to focus or speak of that. Just know that there is something else inside of him that is so clamoring to come out and he cannot find a way for it to. Invite him in on that level of energy, as that soulful being, and put your focus there and helping John do the same. Then all that is happening in the physical will go to exactly where it is meant to. It is not here to cause upset. It is a moment of truth where John must face who his son is and accept him and love him all the same.
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Thursday, September 24, 2009
Friday, September 11, 2009
Imagination and Illusion
What is the difference between imagination and illusion?
What is so important, of course, dear ones, is that you require some sort of direction and tools to help you blast out of what these old ways and tired patterns are all about. This is precisely one of those.
Imagination is the most wondrous catapulting tool that you have in your human condition. Yet you do not utilize it nearly enough. Imagination is about taking who you are and living in a particular moment going outside of whatever is physically given to you, whatever is so body, mind, and ego factually oriented and saying, "I prefer to go to a different, more creative visualization of this." Of course, most of you would say, "That's a useless occupation. You have to deal with the reality of what the physical is right before you. What possible good can imagination do you when you are dealing with this?"
We would say clearly that imagination and the creative process that gets you there is the language of your spirit, of your soul, and it is what leads you to the new pattern and pulls you out of the old. Your ability to visualize what could be different in a moment has the power of making it different. Yet most of you don't believe that. You stop at the third dimensional kind of thinking that says, "A + B = C and that's what you have on the plate now, so deal with it."
Of course that is not so. You can create X, Y and Z doing a dance and it is every bit as real and wondrous as whatever you see in front of you that you are declaring is the only reality. This is why it is so important to recognize that visualizing and imagining takes you out of the old and propels you in to what you've always had available for you here but yet you haven't accepted that or known it.
So you must recognize now, dear ones, that you have a tool that is immense. Instead of taking that tool away from your young ones as they grow and become more adult you want to nurture it and actually encourage them to stay more in the imaginative. It does not matter if they have done so well in your academics at school, whether they achieve a job you consider successful and wondrous, whether they are moving along in higher education that pleases your ego and your mind to be able to say, "Look how successful this one of mine is." It matters not. You have heard this over and over again and yet you still fall into it - that if they are going to succeed, if they or I am going to make it in this world, we must play the game of achieving in the way everyone around us says. Well that, dear ones, does not allow for imagination does it? That doesn't take you into the visualizing. That doesn't take you into that projecting what it could be which is what your Mayan friends did all those years ago.
The recognition of who you are does not stop at the doorway of fact. It does not stop at the doorway of conditions in this third dimension. Who you are propels you out beyond the boundaries and the barriers of what that kind of thinking is about and takes you to the place we speak of tonight. Visualizing and imaging takes you into the world of your divine nature and allows you to see it as reality in this plane as a human.
When you are in illusion you cannot see. You cannot know, you cannot visualize, you cannot feel or imagine what the possibilities are. You are living so from what you fear, so from what you worry about, that you keep up that illusion and then say, "This is the reality so we have to stay focused there." Think about this, dear ones. It is the moment of truth for all of you when you can recognize; I'll choose visualization and imagination over fact in this moment. When you do, you will find you've stepped in to the divine nature and you'll realize it feels unbelievable. You will realize it is possible to know who you are as a divine being while existing in this most dense, physical plane. It is what you want, now go for it.
What is so important, of course, dear ones, is that you require some sort of direction and tools to help you blast out of what these old ways and tired patterns are all about. This is precisely one of those.
Imagination is the most wondrous catapulting tool that you have in your human condition. Yet you do not utilize it nearly enough. Imagination is about taking who you are and living in a particular moment going outside of whatever is physically given to you, whatever is so body, mind, and ego factually oriented and saying, "I prefer to go to a different, more creative visualization of this." Of course, most of you would say, "That's a useless occupation. You have to deal with the reality of what the physical is right before you. What possible good can imagination do you when you are dealing with this?"
We would say clearly that imagination and the creative process that gets you there is the language of your spirit, of your soul, and it is what leads you to the new pattern and pulls you out of the old. Your ability to visualize what could be different in a moment has the power of making it different. Yet most of you don't believe that. You stop at the third dimensional kind of thinking that says, "A + B = C and that's what you have on the plate now, so deal with it."
Of course that is not so. You can create X, Y and Z doing a dance and it is every bit as real and wondrous as whatever you see in front of you that you are declaring is the only reality. This is why it is so important to recognize that visualizing and imagining takes you out of the old and propels you in to what you've always had available for you here but yet you haven't accepted that or known it.
So you must recognize now, dear ones, that you have a tool that is immense. Instead of taking that tool away from your young ones as they grow and become more adult you want to nurture it and actually encourage them to stay more in the imaginative. It does not matter if they have done so well in your academics at school, whether they achieve a job you consider successful and wondrous, whether they are moving along in higher education that pleases your ego and your mind to be able to say, "Look how successful this one of mine is." It matters not. You have heard this over and over again and yet you still fall into it - that if they are going to succeed, if they or I am going to make it in this world, we must play the game of achieving in the way everyone around us says. Well that, dear ones, does not allow for imagination does it? That doesn't take you into the visualizing. That doesn't take you into that projecting what it could be which is what your Mayan friends did all those years ago.
The recognition of who you are does not stop at the doorway of fact. It does not stop at the doorway of conditions in this third dimension. Who you are propels you out beyond the boundaries and the barriers of what that kind of thinking is about and takes you to the place we speak of tonight. Visualizing and imaging takes you into the world of your divine nature and allows you to see it as reality in this plane as a human.
When you are in illusion you cannot see. You cannot know, you cannot visualize, you cannot feel or imagine what the possibilities are. You are living so from what you fear, so from what you worry about, that you keep up that illusion and then say, "This is the reality so we have to stay focused there." Think about this, dear ones. It is the moment of truth for all of you when you can recognize; I'll choose visualization and imagination over fact in this moment. When you do, you will find you've stepped in to the divine nature and you'll realize it feels unbelievable. You will realize it is possible to know who you are as a divine being while existing in this most dense, physical plane. It is what you want, now go for it.
Monday, August 17, 2009
Parent-Child Reunion
Dear Readers and Welcome,
If you have found this blog, is it not by accident. Perhaps it is you who is searching for something to help you in your sorrow and grief--or someone very close to you who is is trying to recover, understand and put meaning to "why" regarding the death of their child. Please read about a very compassionate gifted woman and her ability to reconnect parents with their child who is now in heaven or has transitioned to "the Otherside of the veil." Below, is an announcement of a very special Parent-Child Reunion--a retreat to help parents with the loss of their child.
Who?
Sally Baldwin and the Dying To Live Again Foundation extend a heartfelt welcome to parents and our supporters. We are dedicated to helping bereaved parents reconnect with the soul of their child who has crossed-over to the spirit realm. We arrange 'Reunions' based in faith, love, energetic healing, and mediumship. In this light, we announce our inaugural retreat to support parents in their journey to find an alternative means to communicate with their child. The Parent-Child Reunion is scheduled for October, 2009 in beautiful Sun Valley, Idaho. Below, please read more and learn about the art of connecting with the Otherside and its healing impact on grief and sorrow.
On behalf of all parents, respectfully,
Sally Baldwin
What? Communicating with Your Child's Soul . . .
Helping Parents with the Loss of a Child
Scope of the Problem: Children are not supposed to die! Sadly, over 50,000 families are devastated by this unfortunate reality each year in the United States. The loss of a child leaves parents in a state of profound bereavement. Parental mourning is the most intense grief known and these families are constantly plagued by pain and suffering. This tragedy can paralyze their lives for years to come.
Goal: To provide mothers who have lost a young child an opportunity to heal more deeply by connecting with the spirit of their loved-one.
Sponsor: The Dying to Live Again Foundation (Public Charity 501-C-3).
Participants: Mothers will be selected based primarily on their capacity to embrace the notion that those who have expired physically continue to exist in another realm and it is possible to connect with distinct spirits. These mothers must possess a strong motivation to communicate with their child through spirit channeling. The application process is now under way. Ten or fewer mothers will be chosen to partake in the workshop so as to keep the activities personalized and deep. Participants will receive financial support associated with the retreat.
Program: The retreat will be conducted in Sun Valley, Idaho at a local hotel and conference center. The workshop program will be scheduled during mid October 2009 and conducted over a 3.5-day period. Experiences will include personal counseling on grief and loss issues, seminars in stress management, energy work, and spiritual channeling with the soul of their child. Special emphasis will be placed on the phenomena of ‘yearning’ and ‘acceptance’.
Faculty: Sally Baldwin and Steve Baldwin will be the primary educators and counselors. Sally and Steve each earned a master’s degree in the field of healthcare and have extensive experience as healing arts professionals. Debbie Grossman and Nancy LeMaster will function as facilitators during the program to provide the mothers with guidance and comfort as needed. Debbie and Nancy are highly involved with the DTLA Foundation and have been comprehensively trained in grief and loss education. Channeling with the Otherside is to be conducted by Sally Baldwin.
For more information: Please see www.parentchildreunion.com
info@parentchildreunion.com
954-788-3430
If you have found this blog, is it not by accident. Perhaps it is you who is searching for something to help you in your sorrow and grief--or someone very close to you who is is trying to recover, understand and put meaning to "why" regarding the death of their child. Please read about a very compassionate gifted woman and her ability to reconnect parents with their child who is now in heaven or has transitioned to "the Otherside of the veil." Below, is an announcement of a very special Parent-Child Reunion--a retreat to help parents with the loss of their child.
Who?
Sally Baldwin and the Dying To Live Again Foundation extend a heartfelt welcome to parents and our supporters. We are dedicated to helping bereaved parents reconnect with the soul of their child who has crossed-over to the spirit realm. We arrange 'Reunions' based in faith, love, energetic healing, and mediumship. In this light, we announce our inaugural retreat to support parents in their journey to find an alternative means to communicate with their child. The Parent-Child Reunion is scheduled for October, 2009 in beautiful Sun Valley, Idaho. Below, please read more and learn about the art of connecting with the Otherside and its healing impact on grief and sorrow.
On behalf of all parents, respectfully,
Sally Baldwin
What? Communicating with Your Child's Soul . . .
Helping Parents with the Loss of a Child
Scope of the Problem: Children are not supposed to die! Sadly, over 50,000 families are devastated by this unfortunate reality each year in the United States. The loss of a child leaves parents in a state of profound bereavement. Parental mourning is the most intense grief known and these families are constantly plagued by pain and suffering. This tragedy can paralyze their lives for years to come.
Goal: To provide mothers who have lost a young child an opportunity to heal more deeply by connecting with the spirit of their loved-one.
Sponsor: The Dying to Live Again Foundation (Public Charity 501-C-3).
Participants: Mothers will be selected based primarily on their capacity to embrace the notion that those who have expired physically continue to exist in another realm and it is possible to connect with distinct spirits. These mothers must possess a strong motivation to communicate with their child through spirit channeling. The application process is now under way. Ten or fewer mothers will be chosen to partake in the workshop so as to keep the activities personalized and deep. Participants will receive financial support associated with the retreat.
Program: The retreat will be conducted in Sun Valley, Idaho at a local hotel and conference center. The workshop program will be scheduled during mid October 2009 and conducted over a 3.5-day period. Experiences will include personal counseling on grief and loss issues, seminars in stress management, energy work, and spiritual channeling with the soul of their child. Special emphasis will be placed on the phenomena of ‘yearning’ and ‘acceptance’.
Faculty: Sally Baldwin and Steve Baldwin will be the primary educators and counselors. Sally and Steve each earned a master’s degree in the field of healthcare and have extensive experience as healing arts professionals. Debbie Grossman and Nancy LeMaster will function as facilitators during the program to provide the mothers with guidance and comfort as needed. Debbie and Nancy are highly involved with the DTLA Foundation and have been comprehensively trained in grief and loss education. Channeling with the Otherside is to be conducted by Sally Baldwin.
For more information: Please see www.parentchildreunion.com
info@parentchildreunion.com
954-788-3430
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